Day 349: Have dinner with an Iraqi refugee

On day 349 of The Time Hack, I visited a family who fled Iraq after a bomb exploded in front of their home in 2009 - gifts of a drawn out war graciously provided by Al-Qaeda, the father told me.
I gulped down large portions of well-prepared pot roast at a worn brown table in the family’s kitchen, while listening to stories from Amir Ahmed (not his real name). He was excited for someone to hear his story, and I was happy to be there.
His wife tiptoed around the kitchen preparing side dishes for our meal, his young daughter sat at the end of the table doing her homework on a pink laptop.
Ahmed, a warm-hearted, former university professor and father of four, has been dealing with unbearable bouts of depression as a result of the attack, he said. He had worked as a translator for the US military and feels a hit was taken out on his head and those of his family members because of his work.
While I was there, I could sense a deep sadness ricocheting off the pale white walls of the Ahmed’s home - a despair that the father caught and carried for his family. Two of his young children died in the bombing, and one of his daughters was still in the broken country, desperately trying to get out.
His daughter’s appeal to the US to allow her and Amhed’s grandchildren into the United States is one of many currently pending because of new security measures put in place in 2010 that require new intensive background checks.
Late last year, a group of lawmakers argued that more intensive background checks were needed in order to enter the US for those fleeing the Iraq war.
The security procedures were and are a direct reflection of continued threats from within the US by small sects of extremists hailing from the Middle East. But the new measures are forcing many who have worked with the US military to risk their lives by staying in the country.
“Do you think what I did was wrong?” Ahmed asked me, referring to his work with the US military.
I told him I could not answer that question but could say that I thought what he did was brave.
“But my daughters are dead,” he whispered.
The audio of the interview with Ahmed was turned into a BBC World Service piece by Marc Adams. To read more about Ahmed, see the text and link below.
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The last American soldiers have left Iraq, and many Iraqis with a connection to them, however distant, remain vulnerable to attack by extremists seeking retribution. Thousands hope to resettle in the US, but new security procedures have delayed admission for all but a fraction, leaving them stuck in dangerous limbo.
“Sometimes when you wait for something, that process will kill you day by day. I’m kept waiting,” says Amir Ahmed, an Iraqi refugee in the US and father of four.
Desperation consumes his voice as he talks about his daughter still in Iraq, waiting to be resettled in the US and reunited with the rest of her family.
“She is part of my body,” he says. “She is a part of me and I am unable to live without her.”
For security reasons, Mr Ahmed asked to keep his real name hidden. Every day he is gripped with fear his daughter and her family will be killed in retaliation for the work he did for the Americans.
“The situation is going to get worse,” he says. “I am 100% sure of it.”
Just after the US invasion in 2003, Mr Ahmed left his job as a university professor to work as an interpreter for the US Army. Seven months later, a bomb exploded in front of his house, placed by al-Qaeda, he says. He was severely injured and two of his daughters were killed.
After recovering, he fled with his family to Syria. In 2009, they came to the US.
But his daughter’s husband was determined to start a business in the new Iraq, and the couple stayed behind with their three young children.
They quickly came to regret their decision.
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